Me, Myself and I

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Single Mom Diaries (My Story)


We all grew up believing the fairy tale: You meet Mr. Right, and soon after, start having kids. But what if he never comes along? What if things don't go as planned and time starts running out? How strong you are for being a Single Parent?

I have a  Son. Her father and I were unable to work through our issues. I love being a single mom. To watch a child grow and blossom is more rewarding than forcing yourself to be in a destructive relationship. I love my son more than life and I'm so fortunate to have him. I want to provide him with the life I feel he deserves. Sometimes I wish I could find someone to share my life with and have a real family, but I treasure every day that I have alone with my son because I know that we will always have an amazing bond.Honestly my son and I have been on our own from the beginning. I went throught the pregnancy alone.. depressed but accepting of my fate. My son will grow up to be an INCREDIBLE human being.. he will not be undermined just because he came from a "single person home". He will get strength from it and it will show him that woman are capable of great feats in life.. hopefully avoiding the sinkholes of some pampared girls. I am a single mom.. and I am proud to be able to put food on my table.. to pay my rent.. and to be able to put money aside for my son so one day he can get a university education. I have great aspirations for him..i still see his father every  now and then.

Being a single mom has brought me in touch with my inner strength and made me see how strong my son is. I do get lonely, and I do wish to find a man ideal for myself and my son but at the same time I relish our bonding time. There was an amazing man in our lives at one time but he chose to leave both me and my son which wounded us both deeply. Im scared to ever introduce anyone to him again.



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